Here's the perfect gift to give your spouse/partner for Valentine’s Day. 

This is a gift that can avert those little annoyances, those small spats, as well as some of the big ones.  While everyone knows men are from Mars and women from Venus, that doesn’t help you understand the cause of some of the spats or what you can do to avoid them. 

This little (90 pages) dictionary does just that.  It describes the 80 words that have different meanings to men than to women – that without knowing these differences, couples end up hurting or annoying each other.   Why Don’t You Understand? A Gender Relationship Dictionary also has some examples of typical situations that trip up couples – with alternative responses. 

And, best of all, a step-by-step guideline for having a “Good Argument.” 

And, based on my clinical experience over the past 39 years, I have found that at least 60% of conflicts are reduced just by acknowledging  these language differences.

$15 is a small price to ensure your relationship is even better in 2011. 

Don’t have your next argument without it!