I had an Interesting exchange recently about an article I wrote complaining about cell phones interfering with relationships.  Someone wrote a comment that cell phones create space between people but also conflict – it is no longer a viable excuse to say, “I didn’t get your message,” or “I wasn’t home.”  

I responded with this:

What you suggest, though, is exactly what makes this a circular conversation.  If people are convinced within themselves that there is no reason to be available every time the phone rings, that removes the problem as you present it.

Cell phones, initially, were to make life easier, not more complicated.  We all have had the experience of people actually answering the ring in the theater (live and movie), doctor's office, etc.  Life existed before we had constant contact, and it can return to that.

I sometimes laugh when my clients, who pay me a lot of money for their sessions, take out their phone when it rings to see who is calling.  Or, those who are on the phone in the waiting room when our appointment time starts.  I won't start, it's impossible to start, with one on the phone.